I grew up with my mum, and my childhood was alright. Looking back, I think what helped me most was having people around me who knew me and supported me. Growing up with autism, I was often okay when I had the right help. The things I found hardest were doing things on my own, but when people helped me, I managed much better.

When I was younger, I went to special school. I spent time at Queensbridge School. School was a positive time for me. I got on with people, met my friends and felt settled. I liked English best, because I enjoyed writing, and I liked maths too sometimes, although I could find it hard. When I got stuck, the teachers were kind and helped me. That made a big difference to me.

For me, growing up with autism was not too hard. It was more that some things could be difficult unless I had support and understanding. I was alright when people were patient with me and gave me time. Having kind teachers and being around friends helped me feel more confident.

After I left school, I went to Sutton College. I used to get the bus there from Erdington, going up the hill and back again, and that gave me a sense of independence. College was an important step for me. It helped me grow up and do more for myself.

After college, I got a job in a charity shop, and I still enjoy that kind of work now. I like sorting baby clothes, putting them on the rail and getting them ready to be sold. I like meeting the regular customers too. People are friendly and say hello, and that makes me feel part of things.

Family has always been important to me. My mum and dad have worked with an ice cream van for years, and I have good memories of going with them. They know lots of people and lots of people know them. One of my favourite treats is a knickerbocker glory, which always brings back happy memories. I also have good memories of being around the kitchen at home. I enjoy cooking, and I am used to helping out. It is something that makes me feel useful and comfortable. More recently, I made bread and butter pudding, and I also made dinner for everyone in the house.

Editor’s note: As we talked about it, Janet, who was sitting in the living room, agreed that it was tasty.

I lost my sister Sharon when she was young, and I still carry those memories with me. I still visit her grave at Christmas. But I also have people around me who matter very much to me, including my nephew Jayden, and I am proud of him.

Before I came to Lisieux Trust, I lived in another care home. Moving here was a positive change for me. What I like about living at Lisieux Trust is that I do not have to do everything on my own. There is always support when I need it. That matters to me because, growing up, that was always the thing I found hardest.

My story is not really about autism holding me back. It is about finding the right support, having kind people around me, and getting on with life in my own way. That is what has helped me from childhood to now.